How you react is your KARMA.
Wayne Dyer says it best: "What people say to you is their karma; how you react to it is yours"
When it comes to break ups : Be Careful who you are talking to because they are giving you advice based on their life experiences.
Don't allow others to perpetuate the pity, loneliness or negativity by constantly talking about it.
Talk to a therapist, Relationship expert, or a Coach!
Never Give Up On Love, Debbie Forth