Stop it. Just Stop it! Stop expecting your partners or beloved to fill your void, to fill your wants and needs if: 1. If you don't even know what they are 2. If you can't fill them first in yourself Define your Love. Define your Life Write down your wants and needs around love! Define it. Then make certain you are able to fill those needs FIRST! Spread the Love, Debbie Forth, Love Coach / Love Architect